1. Pipi on my side, keeping me company and sometimes "talking" to me in cat's language. Believe it or not, purely touching him on the palms or on his back will make me happy and relax. Looking in his half-closed eyes or lying on him to hear his heartbeats would do, too.
2. Listen to these music by my friend-- you'll immediately know what I mean and how I feel: http://closetmusicianswanderlust.posterous.com/a-hard-days-and-nights-workbut-oh-so-worth-it